The HOA hate is completely overblown online. It’s practically clickbait at this point. Just a framework for petty neighbour stories to entertain reddit teenagers with no real world experience.
I fell for it at first, and when my wife and I started looking for houses, I specified no HOAs. We saw a couple of houses that didn’t have HOAs, and then I realized that while I personally would prefer not to be in an HOA, I really, really want my neighbors to be in one.
So we got a house with an HOA. It was a gated community of small houses in a bad neighborhood. The HOA handled trash pickup, maintenance of common areas, what little landscaping we had, and a couple other things that we wouldn’t want to deal with on our own. Sometimes they’d hire a security guard to deter package theft. They charged a little more than I’d like to pay, but overall it was a positive experience. They sent us a letter once saying we had to replace our door. We didn’t. Nothing ever came of it. And to be fair, they were right; that door is in terrible shape.
Now I live in a different neighborhood with a different HOA. Sometimes they send us an annoying letter saying I can’t leave my trash cans out. It’s a minor inconvenience. Overall another positive experience.
The vast majority of HOAs are fine. You don’t hear about those because that’s not entertaining. It’s silly to think that the stories about petty old busybodies would be the norm.
Would it be so bad if it follows the same path as Twitter? If it connects people and organizations in an honest and helpful way for fifteen years?
Or we could all just keep shitting on it while it facilitates social and political movements and enables rapid communication across the planet. Then more than a decade from now when some Ultra-Nazi trillionaire buys it, we can all say “I told you so,” and be real smug about it.