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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • mcpheeandmetoReddit Was FunGoodnight, RIF
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    2 years ago

    That’s one thing Reddit doesn’t somehow grasp: They outsourced their brand experience a long time ago when they were late to building an app of their own. To me and many others, reddit definitely is reddit is fun. There’s no putting that genie back in the bottle.






  • Here are a few nonfiction books I couldn’t stop reading and ultimately finished in a couple of days. They might be a little niche, but I’d recommend them for everyone.

    • “Tranny” by Laura Jane Grace (autobiography by the lead singer of the band Against Me!)

    • “Where You’ll Find Me” by Ty Gagne (story and analysis of a woman who died hiking New Hampshire’s White Mountains in winter)

    • “This Land” by Christopher Ketcham (kind of one big reported essay on how big industry and cowboy culture are destroying the American West)




  • The early weekend was crazy. It was such an excuse for me to obliterate the majority of my workweek because god knows I was worthless on Monday and part of Tuesday. Did better late Tuesday, crushed Wednesday, and then was down and out for Thursday and Friday.

    It didn’t always happen like that. And toward the end, that was really rare. But damn do I remember when I was at my worst. The pain in my head as my alarm blared after a couple of hours of strained sleep. The horror of waking up. The immediate regret, the dread, the feeling that I’d trade anything to be anyone else.

    No thanks. Life’s better on this side. It wasn’t easy to get here, and I still face days when I wonder whether this sober person is really me. Did I really make that change? Did I really set those boundaries? Am I really no longer a drinker, something that was core to my friendships, family relationships, and identity?

    The answer is yes, so long as I don’t take that next drink. IWNDWYT.








  • mcpheeandmetoStop DrinkingDaily Check In - Friday June 23
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    2 years ago

    Nice job. I know how hard that kind of situation can be.

    I’m sorry you felt like an outsider. As someone whose family and friend groups is full of binge drinkers, I know that feeling well.

    What works for me has always been leaving when I feel like it. I’ve also set boundaries with loved ones, which helped me prevent being in many – but not all – difficult situations. And my wife, kid, and I do a lot of fun, active stuff – and more and more, people we know want in on that, which helps a ton.

    Anyway, you’re a champion. Way to go!